This can be particularly challenging and yes to a certain extent depending on what the issue is about.
What if its trivia matters at home, this can be forgiven and forgotten easily? What about attacks on personal behaviours or upbringing? Would that seem hard to forgive? These can sometimes be raised in arguments including name calling but in most books and counselling recommends refrain from these.
Address these immediately and I mean immediately, the longer both prolong the agony becomes embedded and will just explode unexpectedly causing even bigger furore.
Even the bible advocates not letting the sun go down on our anger. Many a times we've heard,"forgive and forget", the latter is hard to do humanly speaking. We're creatures of such especially more when some of these hurt us more and an occasion of such can wipe out ten other commendable things we've done for our spouses.
Why not FORGIVE and MOVE ON...
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